To judge or not to judge?!

So recently I dated this fella for a few weeks. On paper, we seemed like a perfect match. We were both born in the same part of the world, we both loved the same things, and he seemed like a perfect gentleman. 

A few weeks past, I went out with him and we got into an unnecessary fight which lead me to shed a few tears. I got judged for it, and was called weak. 

So I wanted to ask my dear friends, readers, or people that are following me, is it fair to judge someone after a fight and how a person reacts to it? Please send/ write down examples.